Wednesday, February 19, 2025

Viral Connections and a Return Home

The flight to Istanbul took just over 11 hours.  It was a late-night departure, yet they were determined to feed us dinner.  We ate what we could and then settled in to sleep, which came pretty easily, given the hour and the fact that we’d had a full day already.

On the first flight, K and I were seated next to one another in the center again.  We were on Turkish Airlines, so no honeymoon seats as on Qatar, but nice nonetheless.  In fact, we were on an Airbus originally destined for Aeroflot.  It was to be their new flagship airliner, but following their invasion of Ukraine, Airbus ended up selling the plane to Turkish.  checked on K often during the flight, but she was consistently asleep whenever I checked.  

On Our Flight from Hanoi to Istanbul

When we finally got to talk, when deplaning in Istanbul, she addressed me with a congested voice and unhappily announced that “the crud got me.”  I shouldn’t have been surprised, but some part of me still wanted her to be the “last survivor.”  I had my medication with me, so after we settled into the lounge, I gave her what I had and she tried to make the best of it.  Luckily our layover was not long and our flight to DC left on time.  Again, we were in window seats with a row between us.  As soon as we took off, for another 11-hour flight, she had them make up her bed and she went to sleep.  She slept the entire flight.  In fact, when the second meal (breakfast) was being served before arrival in DC, they turned on all the lights and made a lot of noise, but she still slept through it all.  She did not get up until a flight attendant had to wake her for landing.  I was glad she got so much sleep, but it was obvious that the virus was still setting in.

Transiting in Istanbul


We arrived into Dulles just before noon and we had immigration to ourselves.
  Annoyingly we were cleared and ready to leave, but it took more than 30 minutes for our bags to finally come out.  After a quick Uber ride home and very affectionate reunion with Chip, we dragged our now considerably heavy luggage into the house, and K went right to bed.  She was still hoping to get ahead of the cold.

This is a trip we are still saturating.  I normally complete these travelogues much more quickly that I have this one, which I attribute to the chaos of work right now and the lingering effects of our virus.  That said, we are both emphatic that we are glad to have gone and will forever have some amazing memories of Vietnam.  That said, it is also firmly in the grouping of “glad to have visited, but we have no reason to rush back.”


Tuesday, February 18, 2025

Our Last Tastes of Ho and Hanoi Before Heading Home

I already gave it away, but we were never destined to see Hanoi in the sun.  We ate breakfast at a window-side table and it was raining quite heavily at the time.  In fact, during the night, I had been awoken by a huge thunderstorm with a tremendous amount of lightning.  K said she didn’t hear a thing, which I envied.

Gray and Dreary Morning in Hanoi

Today was our only full day in Hanoi, and primarily consisted of a city tour.  The rain had turned into a mist by the time we all loaded into the bus, which included more sounds of sniffles and coughs every day.  I again marveled at our driver navigating such a behemoth vehicle in and amongst the running current of scooters.  Our first stop was the national ethnology museum, the grounds of which comprised a selection of native homes from across Vietnam.  This was very similar to ethnology museums we’d recently visited in Romania and Poland, and I have a particular fondness for them, for reasons I can’t easily articulate.  Rain had abated for the most part while we made our way through a series of transplanted native buildings from the various areas of the country.  Each was distinctly different from the other, which was both surprising and refreshing.  We often commented, too, about the fact that the museum grounds were literally abutted by apartment blocks on all sides, with balconies looking right over the park-like museum.  Several found it odd, whereas I envied the people lucky enough to have those apartments.  They had built-in tranquility right outside, with guarantees for quiet neighbors.  The museum included two very nice shops, both of which sold unique handmade gifts which we had yet to see anywhere else.












After piling back onto the bus, our next stop was to see the man himself, Ho Chi Minh.
  His body is preserved like Lenin’s body in Moscow.  In fact, his mausoleum was a “gift” from the Soviet Union and is almost identical to Lenin’s in Red Square.  Before he died in 1969, Ho Chi Minh was adamant that he didn’t want his body to be a shrine, and he repeatedly requested that he be cremated, with his ashes spread at various locations across both North and South Vietnam.  Those wishes were immediately ignored, with his body being sent to Moscow for preservation.  To actually see his body, one must queue up very early in the morning, and it is only open for inside visitors for a couple of hours every day.  Scores of people do line up every morning, but we were told repeatedly that it is a non-satisfying experience, particularly as you must walk past his body very quickly, and no pictures are allowed.  His mausoleum sits on a huge Soviet-looking (no surprise) square in the center of the government district, directly across from the Parliament building and adjacent to the presidential residence.  Scores of foreign embassies and government ministries dot the neighborhood, too, with some (including the Canadian Embassy) sitting within the walled center of the complex. 

Several members of our group elected to not get off the bus, most – we learned later – in silent protest again the idolization of Ho.  We arrived soon after inside visiting hours had ended and before most tours arrived, so again we hit the sweet spot.  We had to go through security screening, but it was quick and painless, with no one else in line.  Once inside, we could walk down and see the very formal honor guard outside, along with all the Soviet-era trapping of typical communist idolatry.  Small tourist shops lined a promenade behind the crypt, most replete with every conceivable item bearing Ho’s image.  Again, the juxtaposition of capitalism in the literal shadow of a communist leader was off-putting.

A light rain had started by now.  The line to clear security was now quite long, so we were glad to reboard our bus.  After a short drive, we ended up at a brewery, when Tony “treated” us to fresh-brewed beer and some typical local snacks (fried corn kernels, rice crackers of all sorts, etc.).  It was a nice break, and we avoided the rain while sitting and socializing.

President's Residence in Hanoi


Ho Chi Minh's Mausoleum in Hanoi

Vietnam's Parliament Building



Made Me Miss Our Chippy!

Suckling Pig at the Brewery

Once again on the bus, we headed to a market area of the city, where we disembarked.  Tony did an outstanding job ushering the 36 of us through a myriad of very small streets, all crammed with every kind of stall selling all kinds of goods, including lots of flowers.  It was a pleasant assault on the senses, with all kinds of odors (all good) and sounds.  Scooters weaved in and around us, so keeping us in toe and as “sticky rice” for street crossings was a challenge, but Tony seemed to handle it with ease.  We emerged from the tight collection of streets to find ourselves across from a large lake, which Tony claimed was named “John McCain Lake.”  This is where McCain’s jet crashed and from where he was taken after he completed a bombing run against a nearby power plant.  I never saw a sign or even a map showing that name, so I’ll assume it’s an informal name, primarily for American tourists.  In the center of the lake, on a small island, stands a beautiful little temple.  We had some time here to explore and look around, which was nice, and the rain held off.



Duckling








This was our last day, and we were in fact beginning our journey home this evening.  Everyone else was not leaving until the next day, but with work and the timing of available flights, we were on a late-night departure out of Hanoi.  There were a few more gifts we wanted to buy, and I had assumed we would have had an opportunity during the city tour.  This did not pan out, so once we were back at the hotel, we had to decide how to handle these last-minute “needs.”  We were all to depart for a famed Vietnamese water puppet show around 5:00pm, after which we’d travel to our farewell dinner.  K and I had already told Tony that we would have to miss the dinner, as our airport transfer was to arrive at 6:45pm.  We didn’t have much time, so I asked at the Front Desk and they identified a large indoor market about a 10-minute walk from the hotel.  We elected to head there, though it was now raining lightly, and the walk was rather challenging, given the traffic and (much worse) the fact that the sidewalks were mostly blocked by parked scooters, meaning that we had to keep going in and out of the street.  We were relieved to arrive at the market hall, which was huge and absolutely packed to the gills with small stalls and all kinds of goods, from household plastic buckets, to underwear, to souvenirs.  We quickly found what we wanted and began the reverse walk to the hotel.  We had not eaten lunch and we were missing dinner (at least until the airport), so we ducked into a KFC (one of the very few Western fast food outlets we saw during the entire trip).  A quick bite down, we got to the hotel and did our final suitcase pack, finishing just in time to leave for the water puppet show.

I’d never heard of water puppetry but, evidently, it’s a centuries’ old practice of putting on elaborate puppet shows in rice paddies.  It was a way to tell history, legends, and stories of morality to illiteral rural populations.   It has since evolved into a lavish indoor practice, with elaborate puppets of all sorts.  I still do not know how they are controlled.  We were in the second row, in front of a huge indoor pool, and I never saw anyone beneath the water, controlling the puppets, so it must be done with some kind of remote apparatus. Knowing we would have to leave before the show was over, we said some quick goodbyes to folks on the tour and took seats on the end of the row.  Near the end, we quietly snuck out and ordered up another Grab car.  Traffic was very heavy and as I watched the incoming car creep along on the app’s map, I was a little concerned about getting back to the hotel on time.  My standard pre-departure angst was again unfounded as we made it back in plenty of time to change, freshen up, and get to the lobby early.  That was all well and good, as the transfer driver arrived 15 minutes early, which I never mind. 


Inside the Water Puppet Theater


The rain was quite heavy as we made the 30-minute drive to the airport.  We had a huge transit van all to ourselves, which seemed quite unnecessary.  The airport, while modern, was typical Asian, in that there was a huge common check-in terminal, and you had to consult a central screen to find your check-in area and desk, as it could change from day to day.  Turkish Airlines was at the far, far end – of course – and we could see the long line as we approached.  The business class check-in line was very short, but everything moved slowly as it appeared almost every passenger was checking in huge cardboard boxes full of Lord knows what.  I’d never seen anything like it.  I was wondering if we were really on a cargo flight or something, and I joked that the plane would be too heavy for takeoff.

We had about 90 minutes to kill in the lounge, and we got some snacks and just detoxed from what had been a long, long day.  I had a long call on WhatsApp with Anna, with whom we had only been able to text most of time, while K did some shopping.  We boarded on time and even left a little early.  The rain was extreme as we taxi’d, and I saw lightning on the horizon, which is my last memory of Vietnam, before we took off and disappeared into the low clouds.

Monday, February 17, 2025

Ha Long, Hanoi and (Alternative) History

As I previewed, we both slept exceptionally well in Ha Long.  I was up first – shocker! – and I tiptoed to the curtain, hoping against hope that I’d be greeted by clear skies.  Alas, it was gray, just like the day before.  If there was any saving grace it was that there was no rain; just the constant threat of it.

Breakfast was quite good, and it brings to mind that I think I forgot to mention that the breakfast buffets at all of our hotels were incredibly similar.  They all had an omelet, egg, and crepe station, along with traditional Western buffet items.  Lots of French-looking (if not tasting) pastries, along with large and elaborate stations for fresh fruit.  Then there would be an Asian station, usually where they would offer you fresh-made and customized Pho, the traditional Vietnamese meal.  There were also Asian buffet items, usually noodle and rice dishes, along with dinner-like meat dishes, sushi, and dumplings.  It was always a bit overwhelming.  The Japanese tour group was at breakfast the same time as us.  At this hotel, the Asian food was on the far other side of the restaurant, so we all ended up naturally segregated.  It did show that there were clear preferences as to what folks like in the morning.  I have also failed to talk about Vietnamese coffee.  I was shocked to learn that they are the number two grower of coffee in the world, behind Brazil.  I don't think I'd even even heard of coffee from Vietnam.  It is grown in the mountainous regions, which we did not see, and is known to be particularly bitter.  In reading later, we import very little Vietnamese coffee into the United States on account of its bitter qualities.  With this in mind, they have taken to serve "traditional Vietnamese coffee," which is about two third black coffee and one third condensed milk.  That considerable amount of sweetness helps overwhelm the strong coffee.  Each breakfast also had coffee stations, always including lots of condensed milk and sometimes pre-mixed iced coffee with the condensed milk already in there.

Most of our day would be taken up by a cruise through the bay, which included an island stop and hike, following by lunch prepared and served on the ship.  The boat terminal was fairly new and built on a promontory which was covered in very expensive looking villas and mansions.  Tony explained that a wealthy Vietnamese man secured the contract for the island and agreed to build the port, in exchange for control of all the land.  He then built all of the villas, also in hopes of attracting rich Asians, to include Australians.  I wonder if Australians consider themselves Asian?  Probably not.  I digress.  As in the city, though, all of the villas looked empty, though their elaborate lawns and gardens were all kempt and tidy.  It almost felt like we were driving through a movie set, as there were absolutely no people or cars.  Right before we reached the huge – an empty – pier parking lot, we passed a life-sized King Kong.  He looked over the road and was part of something called “King Kong Park,” though what was actually in the park, I cannot say.  We learned that the movie “Kong: Skull Island” was filmed here in 2017.  To mark that, they built the amusement-like park, hoping to cash in on legions of loyal fans.  None of us, however, had ever heard of the movie, and in researching, I see that it bombed at the box office.  Oh well, more planning that failed.

Along the way I also noted a lot downed trees and vegetation, and lots of buildings – particularly along the large pier – which were missing patches of roof coverings, and there were some boarded-up windows.  That was all damage from a huge cyclone (Eastern Hemisphere hurricane) that went through last fall.  Tony said most of the damage had been repaired, so given what I was seeing, it must have been much worse. 

King Kong...yes, King Kong

The Marina in Ha Long

As in Cu Chi, Tony made sure we were the first arrivals of the day, and our bus sat alone in the massive parking lot that could easily accommodate a 100 or more buses.  We walked through a sparkling new terminal building, with lots of workers just sitting around for want of work.  Our two-level ship was waiting for our group, and we were soon off.  It was cool, but not cold, and despite the gray, it was not raining or even misting.  The lower level was glass enclosed, with large elegant tables for sitting (and this is where we ate lunch later).  The whole upper deck was for viewing, and there were decks aft and ore on the lower level, too.  As soon as we cleared the harbor, we started coming up on the granite islands which dot the bay.  There were lots of fishing boats, too, and we eventually crossed a major shipping lane, with large container ships and a steady stream of very elegant looking cruise vessels.  The latter were overnight ships, which take long groups out into the bay and folks stay and party on the boats overnight.  We were told this is particularly popular for Chinese tourists.







The views were simply stunning, and unlike anywhere we’d visited before.
  We saw lots of birds, to include large numbers of eagles.  The water was clean and greenish.  We cruised among the islands for an hour or so, before we arrived at our first and only stop.  We were to be dropped on one side of an island (with people given the option to remain on board or disembark), and then walk up about 150 stairs, at which point we entered a huge limestone cavern, which essentially was the entire center of the small island.  I was not sure what to expect, but whatever my expectations, they were exceeded.  The caverns were massive, and as we walked down and up, from chamber to chamber, each one seemed to have its one geology.  This was a really enjoyable hike, and a definite highlight of the trip for me.  We were sorry for the few folks who remained behind, scared off by the stairs, which were in fact not arduous at all.

Disembarking for Our Cavern Hike












We emerged on another side of the island, and our boat had sailed around to meet us.
  We could still see the original landing area, and by now, a steady stream of boats were arriving, depositing passengers, and then pulling back out to make room for the next arrival.  Whereas we had had the caverns to ourselves, I imagined hoards of new arrivals and a certainly less majestic visit for those poor folks.  It appeared that most of the other groups were large Chinese contingents.

Emerging Back Out from Caverns

Back on board, we settled in, were offered drinks, and then a multi-course lunch was served.  I had seen them preparing the food earlier, as we departing Ha Long.  There had to have been at least 10 courses, all served family style, and we left so much uneaten food; not for quality, but for quantity.  I felt bad, but I certainly enjoyed the dishes, all of which were unique so far, and they relied heavily on fish and shellfish from the bay.

We arrived back at the pier around 1:30 or so, and after visits to the “happy room” we found our bus in the now nearly half full bus parking lot.  I am still not sure where all of these other tourists had overnighted, as the city seemed so dead.  My current working theory is that they came on day trips from Hanoi.

Speaking of Hanoi, we were soon on the road and headed there.  Most of us were tired, and certainly full, so we had quiet and sleep time until we made one more “happy room” stop.  Soon after leaving there, we started to hit the suburbs of Hanoi.  It is the capital, and though a second city in terms of population, it still has almost 9 million inhabitants.  The blocks and blocks a tall apartment complexes contrasted with HCMC, which while larger, seemed to have fewer such large housing high-rise complexes.  It was even grayer here, likely due to the temperature inversion, which also traps smog.  That, combined with the still not working dehumidifier, meant that the scenes out the window were quite dreary. 

Traffic was just as intense as HCMC, as were the numbers of scooters.  It was raining now, but that didn’t seem to deter any of the scooter traffic.  Local are obviously used to it, as they were all donned up in slickers and protective gear, though I’m sure they were still getting soaked by all the road spray.  We exited the main road into town and drove down into the city proper, and here the contrasts with HCMC were even more noticeable.  The streets were markedly more narrow, and the buildings more dense.  I should have noted earlier, too, that the VAST majority of buildings in Vietnam are very narrow.  This is an artifact of how buildings used to be taxed, with the levy based on building width. As such, everything was built very narrow to pay the least tax.  Though we were told the laws have since changed, the narrowness become cultural and even new buildings are still built very narrow and very high.  I personally didn’t find it attractive, but no one asked me.

Our hotel was located in a nice neighborhood, but with the narrow streets, it felt crammed into its location.  It, too, was narrow.  The staff at this hotel, however, was by far the most friendly and accommodating of any on our trip; that’s saying a lot, as we’d had excellent service throughout.  Our room was on the small side, but still nice, and we were relieved to be far enough back to have zero street noise. 

Painting in Our Hanoi Hotel

Yet Another Bathroom Window

As I’ve written before, our trip included relatively few sights related to the Vietnam War, and when it did, those visits were optional.  One tour not offered to us was a visit to the infamous “Hanoi Hilton,” or Hao Lo Prison.  Tony talked about this during our drive and said that we were all free to visit on our own, but he cautioned us that the exhibitions are “written from the point of view of patriotic Vietnamese.”  K and I had already decided long before that we wanted to visit, but they closed at 5:00pm.  This meant that we’d have to move quickly.  Right after our bags were delivered to our room, we went down and asked the hotel to arrange a taxi.  They were great, and they worked out exactly how much it would cost, etc.  The cab was there quickly and it took about 20 minutes to drive to the prison through very heavy traffic.  It cost all of $4, which I doubt covered the cost of gas.  The prison was located adjacent to a very high hotel complex, and in an area of town which still maintained several large and elegant buildings from the French colonial period.  I do not know if they were original or if they were rebuilt after the war, given all the damage inflicted on Hanoi by U.S. bombing. 

We paid our admission and purchased two audio guides to use while navigating the large complex.   We learned that what remains is only a small portion of the prison, the rest having been demolished to make way for the massive skyscraper hotel next door.  The majority of the museum tells the story of how the prison was built by the French during occupation and used to detain and torture “Vietnamese freedom fighters.”  The displays were incredibly graphic, to include all kinds of torture devices, guillotines, and gut-wrenching pictures of tortured, killed, and detained prisoners.  It was, also, quite busy, with lots of school groups.  We finally had to skip ahead, as it was all very depressing. 

Next was what we wanted to see, which was the portion dedicated to the prison’s use to detain U.S. prisoners of war, to include the late Senator John McCain.  There were about five rooms dedicated to this era, and here the Vietnamese spin was both evident and discouraging.  There were lots of pictures of smiling American prisoners, to include basketball games and art classes.  The audio guide told us of the humane treatment and claimed that the moniker “Hanoi Hilton” was devised by the POWs, given the level of relative luxury in which they were allegedly kept.  It was, in fact, too much to take.  I did, however, enjoy an exhibit about the eventual reconciliation with Vietnam, to include a large display to John McCain’s subsequent visits and his work to improve relations.

Entrance to Hao Lo (Hanoi Hilton) Prison Museum in Hanoi




Most of the Original Prison Was Torn Down To Make Way for This Hotel

One of the Rooms Dedicated to U.S. POW's

We wrapped up right as the museum was closing.  We were both glad to have seen it, but we agreed that with the extreme slant in interpretation, many folks in our group would have been beyond angry and disgusted.  It was now, however, that I used the Grab (Uber-like) app for the first time.  I had figured out that you could order a proper car, rather than a scooter, and within five minutes a nice car pulled up and drove us back to our hotel without issue.

It had been a long day, and we were on our own for dinner.  I had done some research for restaurants near the hotel, and I cross-referenced that to a list Tony had provided.  We settled on one which appeared very close by.  I used Google Maps to walk us there, and it was shown as being close and on the same street as our hotel.  We walked a ways down and all of sudden it showed that we’d passed the place.  It kept jumping around, and I’m sure it was an artifact of the very narrow streets and dense urban environment, which were messing with the GPS function.  We had given up and were walking back to the hotel, resigned to ask for directions. As we were directly across for our hotel and about to cross the street, K looked over her shoulder, and the restaurant we wanted was literally right behind us.  Sigh.  We both felt a little foolish.  It was built in one of the very narrow buildings, and we were quickly seated.  As soon as we’d ordered drinks, a small group of American tourists (about 10) arrived with their guide.  They sat across from us and we got to listen in on their chatter.  It sounded like they were just beginning their tour, and the guide was helping them with the food, etc.  It was interesting to hear other people’s impressions.

The meal was quite good, and – yes – it was Vietnamese again.  Still, we thoroughly enjoyed it.  We were thankful, too, to only have to cross the street to reach our hotel.  While K turned in, I went up and used the gym, which was quite nice, not to mention the fact that I had it to myself.  After such a long day, and the workout, I was more than ready for bed when I made it back down.

Our Hotel in Hanoi (Note How Skinny)


Viral Connections and a Return Home

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